ummm........ talk to let alone ask my ex-husband is like talking to a TREE... He is Persian and well he knows all and controls all and could care less what a woman wants to know about men ..........And there is NEVER a right question to ask him.. All questions asked by women are just "foolish", that is, in his eyes............rolls my eyes and wonders how I found that one... lol........ ok ok... before some one comes along and says well not all Persian men are like that, I will say ummmmmm maybe .. maybe not...... lol