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Hi and welcome. Sorry if I am not of any help. I can understand guilt constantly affecting you. However I probably feel guilty for different reason to you and this will be different for you as well… but maybe the resolve you’re looking for is an answer as to what or when you wouldn’t feel this way. I know that’s how I am but sometimes even finding yourself in that situation you thought would take the guilt away. Wasn’t the fix or answer to stopping this feeling. It’s like you tell yourself if I do this then that wouldn’t make you be what you feel guilt for. However this shouldn’t stop you from moving past the feeling you have now because everyone has the right and chances to change what life they lead and what they are like as a person. Please don’t think that this comment means I think you should feel guilty because I am sure that’s not the case for you. You probably, only guessing here feel trapped and have no idea as to how to move forward from this situation, then you may get yourself stuck within this and the thought processes that goes along side this. This is what I do and I just end up in a cycle instead of moving pass the guilt to a life and place where I can feel not guilty of living or having that. Sorry if I have not really given you a reply or help but maybe just knowing your not alone in feeling guilty is something. I hope you try to hold in there with yourself and in time able to work through this. Wishing you all the best
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