I think your spouse is right

I fully understand ..not only do I have PTSD from an industrial injury, but have a relative at Logan who also knew everyone.
Perhaps she, too, has been traumatized? I think so. Please seek help. Putting it off if it IS PTSD won't make it go away...and will make it tougher to recover. There is no cure for PTSD but it can be managed to where it would intrude into your life every day... maybe your entire family could benefit from counseling?
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