In my case, going back to my ex was a result of horrible depression. Maybe it is for your guy too.
Should you call his mom? That's hard to say. If you have no desire to work on it and you don't think he's going to hurt himself I can't see any valid reason to contact his mom. If he wants to grow up and treat his BP like an adult, let him find it like an adult, not from his mom.
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Originally Posted by rgb11
I drink too. The really sad awful part is I drink more often around him. I'm trying to figure out why. I think it helps me since he's not that communicative. It helps me relax and understand him better.
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I'm going to be honest and tell you I don't buy that. If you have one or two here and there, fine. But to use alcohol to "understand him better" isn't any more mature than they way he's treated you. I'd believe you more if you said it helped you to cope with him better, not understand him better. Neither is the right thing regardless.