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Originally Posted by RobertDark
The more you say about this guy, the worse he sounds and I think it's a blessing you can move on with your life.
"Hey, I want to replace this non-physical addition to weed with sleeping pills!"
I've never heard that as a valid way to stop smoking weed. That's so stupid it's almost funny.
Again, the more you say, the more I say run and don't look back. You're dealing with someone who doesn't care about you on any sort of level. Just based on what you've said.
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I thought so too, any time I would express my feelings it would turn into a fight, He'd point out all the wonderful things hed done for me like buy flowers or make dinner,but it was always the same. That was his effort. Just recently (well right before the breakup) he had been watching my cat while I was out of town. Of course I'd have done the same for him, happily. But he acts like these efforts qualify him for saint hood. He has spent money on me and done other things. But I just get the feeling no woman has ever really challenged him on the level I do, and I defintiley did lower my standards for him (in some regards).
It's just that he always so vehemently denied things, got angry and pointed out how much effort he was making for me I chalked it up to maybe cultural differences (he's from california and I'm from the midwest...)
He always wanted to be with me. It's just like he wanted a replacement wife or mother though.