I'm so sorry that you're in this place, athena.agathon. I think the "telling" comment is his question, "how are you going to afford therapy on your low paying social service job?" I"m not saying that he won't be open to offering a "sliding fee scale" but the fact that he asked that question tells me that he is aware and cognizant of "financial issues related to the cost of psychotherapy."

I wish therapist didn't have this awareness, but they are human. They perform their function because they are invested in "making a living". Wow, doesn't that confict with what all of us believe when it comes to being giving, open, compassionate, empathetic and generous with our time and expertise? ... yeah, but all of us, even those of us seeking psychotherapy, need to make a living. .. and our therapists are no different.

If a therapist is experincing "outrageous" financial gains from their work, then I think that we need to question or rebel against their practice. But I don't think that's the case . .. any more than I think that teacher's are making more than they deserve considering their level of training and education. But right now, we are a society that questions everyones RIGHT to demand payment for services. Do some demand more than they are worth? DEFINTITELY! But most don't. Most provide what they say they will provide and if they don't, we are open to move on.

I tink thyou should talk to him abou this. If he is too expensive for you, but you feel that you are getting a solid connection, tell him that. It's hard to ask for a sliding fee, but if he can't give it to you, he'll tell you. .. .and that's valuable information.

I hope you're albe to find someone that works or fits just right for you!!