Not knowing your BF is bipolar isn't a surprise. If you have never been exposed to it, you don't know what to look for. My father is bipolar (according to him he isn't ... Which is the worst to try and treat) and I am all to familiar with the love/hate relationship it can create. Sounds like you are good to move on. I can't get another dad but you certainly deserve a great life companion and to find happiness. Leave that boy in the dust and move forward.