Thanks for responding back. Out T did have another suggestion. My husband was not pleased at all with the seperate idea. Out T suggested he use one T in the pratice and I stick w/ her. We stay in the same house but don't discuss w/ each other what the therepy is about until we are together. My H and his T and me and my T. We can then tackle things together. This is a more expensive path but a do able path. Time ran out before we got to any other options. So who knows. I sure don't