You sound like my T Thank you

Another thing I've learned in therapy is that we are attracted to relationships that cause us to 'relive' relationship patterns in a way to figure out how to fix things.

Out of curiosity what motivates a person to be a 'winner'?

PS: My T gave me this book to borrow. It's reading for my husband and I. Not everything pertains to me in the book but it's eye opening none the less.

The Post Traumatic Stress Disorder Sourcebook: A Guide to Healing, Recovery, and Growth by Glenn Shiraldi

http://www.amazon.com/Post-Traumatic...&keywords=PTSD