So he is scared of being a father, something I have always asked about, but he continues saying it wasn't about the baby and that he still wants to be in her life.

If this is really what this is, why pack up all of our wedding photos and all of my things, send me back to my parents house, and not contact me?

He sounds like his mind is made up and he wants this divorce.

I even finally talked to him today and I told him I was going to file and I was telling him that the reason I was letting him know was that so he won't be suprised. He told me he "wasnt surprised".

He is also adding like 30-40 new women on his facebook, almost all of them living around him, working around him, or graduating from the high school he lives near.

He told me that night he loved me like he loves his brother. That he just isn't "feeling it" anymore.

Open Eyes, I would love to believe this is a case of cold feet, but the longer this drags on, the longer I believe he really doesnt want me.

If this is him being scared/cold feet, this is one of the most rediculous and extreme cases I have ever seen.