I'm taking a bit of a step here, I've come to the realization I am usually the individual that my friends have family come to for support and help but I very rarely if ever seek help from them or open up to them completely. This isn't a fully conscious decision, I just minimize my issues or assume that I can deal with them internally...I'd like to be able to open up to others about things that go wrong and things that have gone wrong but I'm not sure I know how to totally do that. I know I have the gift of helping others but I need to balance that with helping myself, does anyone else struggle with this unbalance and if so what ways do you feel this can be counteracted, I'm not exactly sure how to begin being transparent and seeking help