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Jul 08, 2012, 03:58 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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As a mother and grandmother, I don't think you should tell your mother. You were BOTH very very young, and your sister did NOT abuse you. She was curious, and didn't have a clue about what she was doing. At 9 yrs old, I doubt seriously if she knew what sex was all about and she certainly didn't have "urges at that age -- at least I would hope not.
What would you accomplish by telling them? It would hurt your sister, and she would feel betrayed. Your mother would feel guilty about not protecting you, and the whole family would be up in arms over something that was just simply exploration.
You were not abused, honey. Put that out of your mind. Just try to forget it. It was just childish exploration -- that's it. If you two had been older, that would have been different. But you weren't. 
Let it go, honey. You're ok. thank God.
Keep talking to your counselor tho so you can come to terms with it, ok? God bless you and take care. Hugs, Lee
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