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It's been my belief and the belief of others that children should never be involved in their parents marital affairs, it is damaging to the children. My mom only told us kids that she left my dad because they stopped loving eachother. That was good enough for me. To hear about all of the abuse, all of the horrible things he did to his children only made things worse (although we saw this for ourselves) it did give us the chance to form opinions ourselves.
Children do not have the maturity nor mentality to fully understand the scenario and should not be allowed to know these things by the other parents, it could be very damaging in many ways.
I hope your ex can stop trying to point the finger and just leave it alone for now. When they are adults and ready to know, perhaps you can tell them but what is it their business anyways? All they need to know is that the love is over between the two of you, they don't need to know anything else
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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