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Originally Posted by BDPpartner
Thank you to everyone for your support. Unfortunately i've called the police last time, they sent 2 cars as well as ambulance and first response car. But they still sent him home, with a pager number, a few sedatives and me to keep him safe  i don't know what it would take for them to keep him in. I'm am physically safe tho, he turns his anger, hate, guilt and frustration on himself. I will definately try and talk to his doctor, don't know how much it will help tho. I just feel bad for wishing him hospitalised 
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I definitely know what you are going through!!! My (ex)fiance was diagnosed in 1999 with Bi-Polar(II) Disorder. She should have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.
On numerous occasions, she was emotionally abusive to me. On several occasions the cops were involved. Luckily, Every time she tried to lie to the cops, it failed. So I was never arrested under false pretenses.
The last big fight was, when I had, had enough of, her 'diagnosing' me. I finally told her to stop 'diagnosing' me, so loud, that she 'ran home to mommy'(women's emergency shelter). Her social worker was a woman that had an ax to grind against men, and believed all the lies my (ex)fiance told her.
The city we were living in, in the northern midwest US, is a magnet for ultra-feminists and men-haters. It is upped severely, when the woman has a serious mental health problem, as in my (ex)fiance's case.
She 'diagnosed' me with:
1. ADD
2. ADHD
3. Bi-Polar Disorder
4. Borderline Personality Disorder
5. Diabetes
6. Dissociative Identity Disorder
7. Multiple Personality Disorder
8. Narcissistic Personality Disorder
9. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
10. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
11. Panic Disorder
12. Post Traumatic Syndrome Disorder
13. Tourettes
The only one I could genuinely have, was PTSD, after living with her.