I am so sorry you are going through this. I really do feel for you. I was in a similar situation where my boyfriend packed all of his stuff and moved out. He said he wasn't in love with me too. I was devastated for months and people told me the same thing, they told you. That he is not a man...real men don't do that. But no matter what anyone said, I wanted to believe that he had made a mistake and he would come back to me. I knew he wasn't acting like the man I had fallen in love with. He was just making a huge mistake and I even tried to convince him of that. I thought about him night and day for months, until finally he told me to stop contacting him. It hurt so bad, but at the same time made angry enough to cut him out of my life. I deleted him from Facebook (I highly recommend you do this because you are going to torture yourself stalking him online) One thing that did stick with me was something my sister said. She said never take him back because if he does this to you once, he will do it to you again. I eventually realized he is a douchebag and it was his own insecurity and unhappiness that caused him to make a decision to leave. You two are both still so young. Since he has never been with any other women, he may want to experience that. I am not saying he won't come back to you but would you really want him back after he goes and tries out being single?

You deserve someone that isn't going to walk out on you. How can you trust him again? That was my main concern when he left me. I wanted him to come back so badly but in the back of my mind, I knew I couldn't trust him again. And a relationship without trust is bound to be doomed.

It's going to be difficult for you to get over him, but it is possible. All I can say is focus on your child. Spend time with family and friends. Do not beg him to take you back. Keep your head high and your self-esteem intact. You deserve someone better than a coward who walks out on you while you are pregnant with his child.