Upon reading Openeye's post, I would concede my argument to her. She hit an angle I had not appropriately considered.

To clarify on my post (which I realize in retrospect was poorly worded...please forgive me), no, I truly do not believe his love for you was based on sex, absolutely not at all. I believe fully that he loved you. My point was that I believe he was reaching for what he used to feel for you, and that is how he chose to do it. That does not mean sex = love for him, but rather the passion and emotional connection of the act. Please, please accept my apologies if my post made you feel worse. That was certainly not my intention.

If I may do anything for you, please don't hesitate to ask me. I wish you nothing but the best, and know I will keep you in my prayers.