Hi, Tony. I would go to your doctor and get a full physical checkup, make sure your body is in good shape and you don't have any nutritional or hormonal deficiencies, etc. and tell the doctor about your mental health concerns. He probably has the name of a colleague you could go see to talk to about them. Some of your concerns seem as if they might be some that a testing psychologist could better delineate; maybe you have some learning difficulties which make other things harder, etc. A psychologist that specializes in testing can uncover those, for example, if you cannot connect what you hear and put it into action, your #7, there are specific things they can recommend for that.

http://www.guidetopsychology.com/testing.htm