Sounds like a very uncomfortable position to be in Lydia. I think if I were in your shoes, wanting to stay with the psychiatrist but not liking the rest of the team, I'd try to learn to wait until things "happened" instead of their yammering about we're going to do this, that, and the other and then changing their minds. Wait until you actually are on the road going down to Sheppard Pratt before you think, "I'm going to Sheppard Pratt"?

It sounds like you know when you feel people are saying things that are not helpful to you, I would just nod politely and not give them the satisfaction of reacting negatively?