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Maven said:There is no reason, barring disability, that he should be sponging off of you.

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Yeah, that's what I'd really like to know about. Whether or not this brother can make it on his own makes a big difference in this situation. If he can and he's just taking advantage, then I could see why you'd want to confront your boyfriend about it. If he's really not, though, then you're giving your boyfriend an ultimatum that amounts to "lose my girlfriend or put my brother on the streets".

I'm just curious, are you paying any rent on this place?