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Jul 09, 2012, 01:38 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Good grief, what horrible thing did you do to earn that kind of punishment. LOL (I'm being sarcastic) My gosh, he's going a bit over-board, isn't he? I mean, I don't think anyone could do something that terrible to merit that kind of treatment, short of murder!
Is this the way he always reacts after a fight/disagreement? I think I'd get pretty sick and tired of this. Of course you're 'worthy of conversation.' He's being a big baby, and hiding in the bedroom so he can cry or do whatever it is he does in there.  Maybe it's cause he's so angry, he's afraid of what he might say or do, who knows?
But if he won't even finish talking to you about it, how does it EVER get solved? Do you ever get it ironed out?
You two need couples counseling,and bad. You need to know how to commuicate, and how to "fight fair." There IS a way to fight fairly and you need to learn how. Urge him to go with you so you two don't get iinto this any deeper and someone gets so pent up with resentments, you end up splitting up over nonsense. Make an appointment for the both of you (assuming he'll go) and try to get in soon. I wish you the very best. I hope it works! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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