i personally, would not give her another chance. You seem like a person who really wants to change and work on yourself and she is being rude. I would never stand for that-her being late etc. One time, maybe but twice you can see a pattern. its called being unorganized>and that means she will not be on top of things to help you. My therapist has two pages written out of what he wants to work on with me just in case i dont have anything to talk about that is urgent. move on.....