I don't know what or who possessed me, but I bought the 1990 book, "How to love a nice guy" or something like that. cos like I said, I think my T is evil, like the cartoon, "I think my goldfish is evil", somehow he always squirms out of it at the end and it looks like it's just my imagination.

I never really thought much about what I wanted in a love r/s, I fretted more about what I didn't want. Anyway, she covers the usual ground about how we marry our mothers or our father, but then she takes it a step further and suggests we BECOME like one of our parents in a love r/s - and I was like, omg, I am SO my dad. Expecting nothing, doing everything, and not caring, just as long as I get mine and the other person stays. So freakin weird. New thread?