Guilty! I used to be quite afraid of my T, which seemed ridiculous because she's always been so warm and kind.. but I think I saw her as a bit of an authority figure. I've always had a kind of respect for authority figures, like teachers, that has me a little bit afraid of them.. always on my best behaviour!

Nowadays it feels like we're closer, know each other better.. and she feels more like a mother-figure/mentor/friend.. and I can be more comfortable to be 'my real self'.. but it took a while!