One of the best things I ever said to my T was "you guys all think this way, but that's not the way it is. You are not hearing me". That really caught her attention. She stopped looked at me ans said, "OK. What are you trying to tell me that I'm not hearing?". It was a real eye opener for me and her I think. I realize now that I only need to say those words and she'll stop and really listen.

Can you tell her she's not right in her assumptions about how you're feeling???