welcome evianjon well, how about some tough love? Separate. Tell him it's temporary if he realizes REGARDLESS of the past, of any excuses, etc. he has to quit drinking. See how much he loves you and the children now.

As it is, you are enabling him to drink. Why not attend AA yourself and get the support you need for that tough love? good wishes. be safe

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