Thanks, granite, wiki, can'texplain, and hankster.

hankster: My H didn't kiss or hug me after my accident. He just said he wasn't angry except that I didn't follow his advice about when to go to the store. I wonder what it would have been like to have a H who hugged me like that and told me "I'm glad you weren't hurt." I never even thought about him doing that. The hug sounds nice. I will ask my T for a regular hug. I could ask my H too. It just would have been nice for him to think of it. Why is the back to front hug recommended in the book? It sounds nice as I don't like hugs so much anyway.