She and the doctor( who is my second cousin) talked to my dad today. They told them that it was out of my hands that he had to have 24 hr care whether he went home or stayed there. If he stays there.. he will be moved to the nursing home part. I feel so little for doing this , yet i know this is what needed to be done. And I know he is hating me for all its worth right now. I havent seen him yet since this talk with them. I am scared to go out there. But I know I have to. I hate being me right now.