Rainbow,

I totally understand about the "out of sight, out of mind" thing. I think it's a way we disconnect when our t's leave, so that we don't feel that separation pain.

I'm sorry you got into a car accident! I'm so glad you weren't hurt. Yes, it would have been really nice if your husband would have voluntarily given you some comfort or words of gratefulness that you weren't injured. He probably felt it though.

I really, really wish my t would hold me the way Hankster described it. I think it would do a great deal toward helping me heal. However, I am too afraid to ever ask for that. She told me once a long time ago, "I don't hold anyone in my practice." So i must have asked her about it at some point?? As you know, she will hold my hand, but i even have trouble asking for that.