wow bun, if I could cry, I feel like my therapy would have been over decades ago. I can squeeze out a tear or two. I think once I cried for up to five minutes, and that was my biggest cry ever with him, with any T. in 30 years. I cry outside T, but not very often. it's like that's my mother's department, no one else is allowed to. hmm, I didn't remember that til just now, that that is a lot of the reason why, or rather why not.

well, bunny, then I would go to an AA or OA or whatever-A meeting, just to get some hugs! Those people are extremely huggy! And you can find women-only meetings, so you don't have to worry about hugging guys. Or go to the Al-Anon meetings. You know, nothing was ever SAID about anybody ever having any problem in our house, but it still existed. Like somebody said here, who should go to therapy? I think everybody can learn something good from AA, whether you drink or problem drink or not.