well, bunny, then I would go to an AA or OA or whatever-A meeting, just to get some hugs! Those people are extremely huggy! And you can find women-only meetings, so you don't have to worry about hugging guys. Or go to the Al-Anon meetings. You know, nothing was ever SAID about anybody ever having any problem in our house, but it still existed. Like somebody said here, who should go to therapy? I think everybody can learn something good from AA, whether you drink or problem drink or not.