He wants to marry you, he wants to spend his life with you, he needs the trust that comes with marriage he is committed to you. Getting suspicious sometimes happen, but don't let it lead to arguments because it won't change him and it just might hurt both of you. I am not saying relationship should perfect, everyone argues but that gives us the chance to learn how to cope.
Write down your argument on paper and hold it for 24 hours before telling him. A lot of us get overwhelmed and we're not in our right minds. When I record my argument, sometimes 2 pages long, I re-read it and think to myself wow what was I thinking, most of the time I do throw it away. It is okay to feel this way but what's important is how to cope with it
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