Boy, this must be so tough. I'm sure your husband had his reasons/issues and I won't call him a bad guy or even a bad husband. But, make sure you have a good lawyer. Not just one that wants to protect you legally and financially, but one who understands what you are going through. You will need money to have this baby on your own but, if he is to be involved in anyway in your daughter's life, you need to keep things amicable. Most lawyers would have no problem ripping him apart in the court systems but this is not necessarily the best move for you and your child....Protect yourself legally and financially, but try to keep your stress as low as possible....just take care of yourself...damn, I'm so angry on your behalf.