(((tryin))) Please don't take the guilt you feel he is placing upon you... it isn't yours, don't own it. As our parents age, and we are forced to make decisions for them (sometimes because they didn't plan , couldn't make those decisions themselves) there will always be situations where there is no "good" answer. We choose what is best... and that includes for us, too. (It has to, as we are involved, and if we are to continue with any real caring, we have to factor that in, also.)

Stay the course... do your best, and apologize if you want, but place the "situation" as the reason, not your decision. TC