Thanks for your feedback seeker1950. I feel the same way about letting your children live their own lives. And for these Mom's who for whatever reason don't push their baby birds out of the nest they really do them a disservice. The Daughter's biological Father has Bi Polar issues and the Mom thinks the Daughter does too. I'm not too knowledgable on the symptoms and I'm not a trained mental health professional so I couldn't say. Perhaps that's the reason for the obsession with the contact. I don't know. I just don't feel it's a healthy situation for either one of them and it has been a source of conflict for us for many years. I'm curious though if there is a name for this. I'm sure there must be some type of syndrome name. So if anyone can help me out with that I'd appreciate it.