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Anyway, now he's off for a bike ride with some friends.

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He wasn't too depressed to go out biking... but he was too depressed to clean the kitchen or do chores???? Have you considered sending him home to his mother's till he figures out what he wants to do when he grows up???? just a thought.......

Ok... ummmmmmm .... I struggle with depression... along with anxiety.. and I am not out with my friends having a good time... even for an hour.... ...I am wondering what type of depression your hubby has... I just see you working so hard and trying so hard and he doesn't even find the energy to wash his dishes but he can go bike riding.........

Please understand I am not being rude.. I just care...I know love is blind..... I was so in love, and blind to what others saw in the lazy guy I adored... This was back in the mid 70's...I worked, paid all the bills and even gave him spending money because he couldn't find a job... so he went fishing a lot and drove by the office I worked in showing off the fish he caught .........my friends and even my boss tried to "wake me up".. to see the light.......Geesh i forget why we broke up... but we did....

anyway........ maybe since one of the reasons he is so depressed is because he didn't finish college... maybe he should take a few classes... something to get him motivated...

I didn't write this to upset you... just i don't understand how he can go bike riding with his friends.. that does take "energy" and yet he can't do anything around the house...just doesn't make sense....