My girlfriend and I have been dating now for seven months. She told me when we first started talking she had more friends that were guys then were women. I didnt think about it to much until they start texting her all the time. Sometimes its just work related questions but most of the time its about wanting to get together or other chat that bothers me. One even asked if he could move in cause he has no place to live now for some reason. He also I guess told her things they could do sexually if he did. I could tell the other day that something was wrong cause she seemed a little distant and I knew she got an email from another guy the night before. I looked at her text and the same guy had talked about how he hadnt had sex lately and it was partially her fault cause she went and got a boyfriend. Her comment was she felt the same when he had a girlfriend. She always said there was never anything between them just friends. The conversation went on and her last comment was "no worries your still very much on my mind". Another had sent an email the other day that kinda suggested having some fun and asked how she was and if she was with a guy right now. She commented about how she was and that she just got back from movies and said she was laying in bed alone at the moment. She didnt answer his emails after that asked if she had to be in bed alone in the morning. We talked about it and she says loves me very much that im the only one she wants and doesnt like seeing me stressed because of it. After our talk I noticed the next day she put a passcode on her phone. My problem is and question of if I am thinking right is .... If she does love me as much as she says and doesnt want to se me stress over this stuff why hide things from me ? Why not just eliminate what is causing the problem?. To me its like trying to take care of the result not the cause. Its like for some reason she is afraid of letting these guys go because something may happen with us. I really love this woman and I dont want to give up. What if im just over thinking and cause this relationship to end because im wrong?