I am obsessed with music. I also like art, films, poetry, literature, etc. It's a lot easier to relate to a musical piece or a character you only experience for an hour & a half than a "normal" person. And a ****ton more enjoyable as well.

And as for us not being able to pick eachother out? Just like figuring out any other type of person, it takes time. But it definitely happens after a while! It's kind of inevitable. And it's a very black-or-white type of relationship: you either hate them inexplicably or you get along with them quite well. I've been subject to both.