Sex has always been painful for me. My last doctor told me that I should get a vibrator or a dilator. She also said if I ever get money/health insurance, I could look into women's health physical therapy. She thought I might have really tight pelvic floor muscles. High muscle tension, or something...

Anyways, sex is still painful. My husband is extremely patient and loving, and I'm very lucky to have him. I just wish he didn't feel so bad about it! It has gotten a little better with a vibrator, but hopefully one day I'll get to do the physical therapy...

You're not alone.