I would not waste trying to figure out whose fault the breakdown in relationship is, I would just try to figure out what I wanted. If he is not who you started the relationship with and you are not what he wants, then I don't see much there unless you both want to continue the relationship. If you do, you both have to work on it, not just you being more "happy" about his inconveniencing you allowing his parents to come between you and he and trying to control you, telling you what you think and feel (that's called "crazy making" http://www.abusivelove.com/AbusiveLove_4_07.htm). You can only be responsible for yourself and getting what you want and need, not whole relationships.