A fella I've known for years. Comes from long distance to buy my art. Yesterday he spent $500 here at my house for many pieces of the "artrox."
Took me to dinner, kept reaching across the table and touching my arms, rubbing them till I pulled away. I sat there with arms crossed...body language, I know...not giving a receptive message. Grabs me and kisses me on the cheek when he leaves. To which, I'm like the cat in the Pepe le Pew cartoons, squirming.

He's a very nice man, educated, travels extensively, and would take me with him! Has said so!

I'm wondering if it's because I haven't dated for so many years, if it's just me, or if I'm trusting my "inner voice" which feels no chemistry.
Many women my age would jump at this. Primarily for the financial security. Plus, he is very appreciative of my artistic talent.

At times, I've thought, Oh, what the he**, go for it. But then I think about the issues of intimacy....to which I've vowed NEVER to go there again. Maybe I've brainwashed myself.

Thoughts and responses appreciated.
Patty