Welcome to C mac17327 - so sorry you had to endure this traumatic event. Why do you have to appear in court? Does your son live with you?? If he does, I think you should have him leave and change the locks on the house. It was wrong of him to confront you when you were sleeping and make you feel defensive. Do you have a therapist and in treatment for the issues you mentioned? I hope you can heal from this ordeal.