THE MEDS KILLED MY SEXLIFE. But I do recall what it used to be like. I explain it like a huge sneeze. First a little tingle, you know it's gonna happen, wait you think it's gonna happen, no doubt about it, It builds and builds them wow. What power. Yes it did happen.
Sex is often like chocolate. Will a hurshey's kiss do. Just a little to tide you over. or do you need the whole jumbo candybar to enjoy. The one that takes a long time.
As for oral. I've told my H it's a good thing you are willing to do that because I love it and If a man didn't do that he better have some really good talent elsewhere. Because for me anyway oral sex cunninglingis is the best gift God ever made.
Though I am not a fan of returning the favor guys. (abuse issues)
Now that I have ZERO sexdrive, I explained it to my hubby that it's kinda like picking your nose. Hole, insert object, Job complete, remove object. Getting that evil boogie is a good feeling I guess. So is sex. It's a good feeling I guess, certinly no as described like a sneeze. Picking your nose is not as messy, no risk of little ones, why not go for a pick.