I'm with Lynn on this. I understand how you feel. Plus, I think she's being disrespectful towards you. She KNOWS this bothers you, and she's known this for a long time -- yet she CONTINUES to hang out with these guys, but expects YOU to change. Why should YOU change when SHE'S the one doing it? If she's committed to the relationship, SHE should be the one to knock off hanging with these guys, and stay with YOU. If she wants to hang with these guys, then YOU should go along too.
I don't think she's all that committed. If I were you, I would tell her either YOU go along when she wants to see these guys, or else she just quits seeing them. Or one other choice is to just hit the road. She can't "have her cake and eat it too" as the OLD saying goes. LOL She's just not respecting you at all.
Just my opinion on this whole thing. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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