I have never gone away without my husband and the kids. I have only actually been out for a girls night Maybe 10 times in the last 16 years. I really would like to go visit some of my family that live about 5 hrs away for the weekend. Leave on a Friday be back on Sunday afternoon. I don't even know how to ask my husband for this. Am I totally selfish for wanting to go and not have to worry about anyone but me for two days?? Am I being selfish?? Being home with 4 kids 24/7 is stressful and I just feel like I need a break.