DITTO.

To the OP - the answer seems to be NO, you write about the girl in such a cold, detached tone, it is shivering. Almost as if she were off-putting. Let destiny send your way some nice, soft, likable creature. Wait for her, if need be. Good luck. And yes, the idea that you have to have it with an older woman is completely silly. You might, or you might not, but to have have it a PLAN - silly, silly, silly.