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mandehble · Jul 13, 2012, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Leed

Why do you have to tell him you had a meltdown at all? Don't even mention it.

Just give your normal answer and let it go at that. If he suspects something was wrong,, just tell him you were tired, or something. But you do NOT have to tell him any more than that. The rest is between you and your therapist, if you have one.

Best of luck & God bless. Big hugs, Lee

I guess I don't need to but I don't want to lie to him. I guess the problem is that my 'normal answer' involves explaining why I am extremely biased in beliefs about human nature because of abuse I have experienced. I'll feel bad if I play the 'abuse victim' card on him.