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Jul 13, 2012, 12:45 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2011
Location: Texas
Posts: 36
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You are what you are, and who cares what other people think? We are all unique. Don’t worry about defining yourself. Other people may say this bad advice to give to a 15 year old, but do what feels right. To me keeping people guessing is fun. Some of the coolest and most fun people I know don’t fit neatly into any ‘category.’ My wife is kind of like you describe yourself. She loves to do ‘boy’ stuff like shooing guns, fishing, riding ATV’s and fixing cars. But she also loves to cook, scrap book and decorate our house. When she was younger she loved to play with the boys and play boy games, but still loved to wear frilly dresses and stuff all the time and while she played with the boys. She is a perfect woman for me because we can have fun together riding ATV’s and going hunting, but as they say on TV, “she cleans up really well, into a ‘proper woman.’ Which can also be a lot of fun for me  Don’t worry about others perception of you gender identity. Tell them that you love to do boy things, but you are a young woman and if they can’t handle that they are not (man or woman) enough to even hang out with you. And that they need to go play with the little kiddies until they are mature enough to handle you. If it was me I would add that, “I am more of and a better ( man or woman) than you could ever be.” But once again saying stuff like that is just my nature.
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