Please sign up for section 8. It'll take a while but you will be able to move

Even in different cultures families raise children differently. We are considered lax in my husbands culture but strict in mine. His sister is laxer than us but it's except-able because she's an only parent. There's all these little loopholes in any culture just like ours.

The other thing you can do is talk to your landlord. It sounds like she probably got suspended from school. The parents are trying, and it does sound like the school professional failed.