My ex husband displayed some disturbing behavior while we were together, extremely controlling, critical of me and others, emotionally abusive, cocky and rude, and he did some weird things when he was upset with me like take apart my exercise machine, let the air out of my bike tires, take lightbulbs out so I was in the dark, he could go from arguing one minute to looking at porn the next. Also took all of our saved money and most of our possessions after the split leaving me broke. My question is do you think it's possible that this behavior might be because of some kind of psychological disorder? I had no self esteem when it was over but I still think about him everyday and it's been 3 years! What is my problem