well, the ultimate decision of course is up to you, but if I were in your shoes, I'd hang on in there with keeping away. It doesnt sound like much of a friend, who seems to be fairly meddling and destructive towards you.

Over the years, I have found that friendships can be like any relationship - people change, situations change and sometimes there is little in common anymore, other than a history together. Its hard to move on, but sometimes its for the best. Feeling lonely is just the adjustment period, and to be expected too - the same as finishing a romance. It does get better and if you can manage to get yourself out with other friends and have a good time, it can help.

I wish you all the best with whatever you decide - just be happy and be with people who make you happy. Life's too short for anything else!!